A Guide to Preparing Information for Mediation or Collaborative Divorce

This guide is to help you be as prepared as possible for what information you will typically be asked to provide during the divorce mediation or collaborative process.  During this understandably stressful time having as much knowledge as possible...

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Separation vs. Divorce- What are the differences between them?

At some point in the mediation or collaborative process, spouses need to make a decision as to whether they wish to separate or divorce. They will choose between entering into a Separation Agreement and converting it to a divorce...

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The Pros and Cons of Nesting for Divorcing Spouses

The concept of nesting is to have the children remain in the marital home with whichever parent is scheduled to be with them according to the parenting schedule.  Due to the high cost of renting or purchasing a new...

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How To Tell Your Spouse You Want to Separate or Divorce

The decision to separate or divorce is usually one of the most difficult decisions of one’s life and is most likely something you’ve been thinking about for some time. But, once you have decided to move forward, it is so...

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How to Tell Your Children You’re Separating

One of the most difficult and emotionally wrenching aspects of going through a separation or divorce is breaking the news to your children. Parents struggle with the timing of when they should tell their children and what they will actually...

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Guide to Parenting Plans for Divorcing or Separating Couples

One of the most important decisions you and your spouse or partner will undertake during your separation or divorce will be to create a parenting plan that will work for your children and for both of you. The primary...

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Five Common Misconceptions About Divorce Mediation

In my career as a mediator I have heard and read about many misconceptions about Divorce Mediation. In this blog I will focus on what I consider to be the Five Most Common Misconceptions about Divorce Mediation. #1- Mediation Won’t...

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Should We Separate or Divorce?

At some point during the mediation or collaborative law process, couples will need to decide if they wish to live under a Separation Agreement or go straight for divorce. The first question most people ask is what’s the difference...

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How Child Support is Calculated in New York

One of the most stressful aspects of getting a divorce is knowing how it can affect children. Not only can it take an emotional toll on the young ones in the family, but it can also affect their financial...

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How to Get Through the Emotional Stages of Divorce

The emotional stages of divorce can be difficult and overwhelming to deal with. Everyone experiences divorce differently but understanding the various emotional stages can help you get through this process with more clarity and hope. Letting go of someone you...

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